The end of a relationship

Posted on March 3, 2012 by paulomara

Dealing with the end of a relationship

Many times people come to me for a reading & it is obvious that they want me to help them rekindle a relationship that has ended. Most of the time it is obvious to me that the relationship has ended for a reason & they want to rekindle it simply for the familiarity & security that the partnership provided.

Though it may be scary & disorientating, when the Universe indicates that a relationship is over it is usually to release you to the opportunity that a new connection may be offering …

There are times when a relationship will end. There are many reasons that this occurs. There are also many different lengths of time that a relationship has gone on before it ends. Sometimes people will have been in a relationship for many years and other times they will have only been together for a few months. However, no matter how long the relationship has been established, there are still certain things that are true for every relationship that ends.

The end of a relationship will impact both people. They will both be hurt and have a wide range of emotions. No matter who is at fault or even if someone is at fault, it is going to change both parties. They will both be emotionally drained for a long period of time. They may not have any desire to be around anyone, even friends. Oftentimes a relationship that ends, whether good or bad, results in depression. Other times it leaves people angry and hostility becomes an issue for them for any length of time. They are blaming the other person or something has happened that ended the relationship that has made them angry. No matter what the situation is, the emotions have to be dealt with.

It is a very bad idea to try to jump into a new relationship right after a relationship has ended. However, many people do this. They have gotten used to having someone in their life. They miss having that and do not know what to do about it. So, they try to find another person to fill that void. However, this is a destructive pattern. It is also unfair to the other person that they are pulling into their negative pattern.

They are offering a false sense of themselves. They are pretending that they are in the relationship for the relationship. The other person has no idea that there is anything else going on. However, in most cases, the two people are not compatible with each other and they end up in a very bad situation.

They will not stay together and in time the relationship will completely deteriorate. The person that was using the relationship is now empty and alone once again and in most cases they are much more emotional and hurt than they were when they started.

The particular circumstances surrounding the relationship will factor into everything and determine how a relationship ends. If it was simply dating, then it will end easier than if it was a live in situation or if there were children involved. There are no specific rules about relationships and dating.

There are also no specific rules about how these relationships will end. Each person, each relationship, each life has its own dynamics and ideals. If a break up is mutual and simply due to the fact that the people are not compatible, it can be easier to end the relationship and keep things on good terms. If there are issues that have caused the relationship to deteriorate on the part of one person, then the relationship is much more likely to end in a bad way and with anger.

Remember love is all there is & to love yourself first is the most important thing.

I wish you only Joy & success xxx

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Astrological Relationship Compatibility – Chinese Horoscopes

Posted on February 29, 2012 by paulomara

Compatibility Issues Are Key To A Successful Relationship

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One of my most popular resources is my online Chinese Astrology Horoscope compatibility page. Regardless of whether you believe in Astrology, Chinese or Western, compatibility is important in any successful relationship. This is not to say that you and your partner have to like all the same things and be exactly alike. It is not a matter of having someone that is like a mirror image of yourself to share your time with. In fact, if this were true, there would be issues from the start and the relationship would be doomed to failure.

You want to find a person that enjoys some of the same activities that you do. If you both like completely different things, there is nothing for you to share when you spend time together. It makes the time strained for one person or the other. It also creates uneasiness and can create unhappiness in the end. This will result in the end of your relationship. It is perfectly acceptable to like different things and have a successful relationship. However, you cannot be completely opposite. There has to be some common ground so that you have things to do during your time together.

You will want a person that shares some characteristics with you. Of course you want them to have their own personality and be their own person. The differences are important for success. You will get bored if you are both too much alike. You will also have conflict between yourselves when you get comfortable with each other. There is nothing to add to the relationship. You both exist as one. You have to have some difference to discuss and add spice.

It is important that people in relationships have similar ideals relating to life and events in it. If you are religious, you would want to be with someone that shares religious values. If you have a desire to have a family, then you would want to be with a partner that also has a desire for family. In regards to life ideals, this is where compatibility is a must. There is nothing like finding a person and falling in love with them. You feel that you are destined to be together. Then, you decide to move your relationship forward.

You have your idea of how things are going to be. Your partner all of a sudden crushes your hopes and dreams. They tell you that they do not want children or that they are not interested in the same things that you are. This will bring about a quick end to the relationship and can leave you both devastated. You could also have feelings of resentment or betrayal toward the other person. It becomes a bad situation for everyone involved.

The best thing that you can do when dating is to find someone that is compatible with you. Talk to them about what you like. If there is something that you are completely against, make sure that they know that from the beginning. Tell them what you are looking for and what your ideal match would be like. Talk about characteristics and personality traits. All of these things are important and can help you have a successful relationship.

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Tarot The Court of the suit of Swords

Posted on February 28, 2012 by paulomara

The Court of the suit of Swords

The Court cards of the suit of Swords are the embodiment of the element of Air that represents thought & intelligence. The swords are the mirrors of the subconscious & represent the development of opinions & beliefs. Usually associated with potential they can often indicate an affinity with spring & can be represented by Aquarius, Libra & Gemini astrologically. An abundance of Swords in a questioners spread can prove challenging & a balance of other suits is preferable to diffuse the severity of these double edged cards. Intelligence is central to the Court cards of the Swords suit, though if badly placed or reversed can indicate that the person is likely to be stubborn & not easy to negotiate with. Ambition, mental agility & decisive action surround this court & as the Sword is perfectly balanced you have to be careful to encourage positivity from any of the characters that populate this suit.
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The King of Swords
Standing before you judgementally, between you the sign of his suit. He has parallels to the symbol of Justice in the Major Arcana. Quick to assess situations & make decisions this King should be approached with honesty & respect. The Butterfly wing represents the Butterfly effect of how this King’s decisions can have instant repercussions around the world. The flaming tree represents the speed that decisions can be implemented by the sword of this suit.

The Queen of Swords

To her right the weapon of the suit. You can sense a feeling of regret, sometimes around lost loves. She takes no prisoners. The butterflies represent her thought process & the ability to raise her mind above everyday issues. Fiercely independent, her decisions are based on logic not emotion. Can represent a very private individual & the stormy sky can indicate holding on to resentment.

The Knight of Swords

The white horse symbolising focus & purity of intent. Again the birds & butterfly indicate thought patterns above the norm & an extreme clarity of vision. The electrical storm embodies the energy & force of this card. His sword always cuts through to the truth of the situation. The skill, bravery & mental capacity of this knight can reveal the truth behind any turbulent circumstance. The downside is that the intelligence of this Knight can occasionally border on madness.

The Page of Swords

A lithe, perceptive, active figure; his sword upright, he moves decisively & quickly. He is passing over rugged icy terrain, linked to his ruthless nature. The clouds swirl wildly around him, disguising his true intent. He is alert and confident, looking directly at you, though fully aware of his environment. Vigilant he can be secretive & deceptive, as symbolised by the scorpion. He is a messenger bringing opportunities, though not always to be trusted.

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Face your relationship fears – Allow love in to your life

Posted on February 26, 2012 by paulomara

Facing Your relationship fears

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There are many cards that signal to me that a questioner has issues with relationships. I was giving a reading earlier today & the pierced heart of the Three of Swords left me in little doubt that the lady involved was feeling relationship pain. However it transpired that this was from a much earlier partnership & she had been carrying this emotion around for a long time & even allowing it to scupper any fresh encounters. It is often the case but until we learn the lessons from our emotional encounters we won’t be able to progress towards finding a fulfilling relationship.

There are many cards that can signify an unhappy outlook in the love area of your life, The Tower for example. Likewise there are many more that can indicate a happy outcome, the lady in question finished her spread with The Lovers, The Devil & The Emperor. These three powerful Major Arcana cards seem to indicate that she is in for an exciting time with a strong, successful man !.

There is a certain degree of fear that exists within any relationship. For some people this fear is overwhelming. They will avoid dating or pursuing relationships due to the fact that they are scared. They may have had bad experiences in the past. They may just be shy or have their own reasons for being afraid.

The truth is you have to love yourself first before you can open up to a soulmate.

Some people simply have a fear of commitment. They may be afraid of losing their freedom. They may not want to risk being hurt. They protect their heart and do not want to risk anything happening to it. No matter what the issue is, it is well documented that in some cases irrational fear will control a person’s life. They are not capable of functioning effectively within the world until they learn the lessons of interpersonal relationships. This creates a major problem and can devastate some people.

The first thing to do in conquering fears is to admit that you are afraid. Be willing to say you have a problem. This is often the most difficult step on the process of overcoming the fear. Once you can open up and talk to people, they will be able to see that you get the help you need to get better. If you do not talk about your fear, there is no way for anyone to help you deal with it. You may not be dealing with it yourself. Perhaps you have put it in the back of your mind and are pretending that there is nothing wrong.Once you cross this boundary the results are incredibly liberating !.

After you have admitted your fear, you can start to deal with it and overcome it. There are many ways to deal with your fear. Perhaps you need to have someone to talk to. Maybe a friend or family member is a good source of help for you. Talk with people and see what help they can offer you. Perhaps someone has been through the same things or something similar and can offer you expert advice. If you do not get any answers from your support system, look for fear related discussion groups. You can do a search on the internet to find groups in your area. This puts you in touch with people that are suffering the same way that you are. My relationship psychic service can cnnect with you & suggest the path that you should follow to reveal your soulmate.

Do not try to date while you are overcoming your fears. This is a sure way to set you up for failure. You are not completely happy with yourself. If you are not happy and content with your individual life, you cannot give your whole self to a relationship and be completely happy with another person. You will doom the relationship before it ever begins. It is best to completely heal yourself before you begin dating.

No matter what the issues are that you are facing, it is important to know that they can be dealt with and handled. You can overcome and live a happy, fulfilled life. It is possible to work everything out and then find the person that you are meant to spend the rest of your life with. You will be happy and at peace within yourself. This makes it possible to love someone and put your whole heart into the relationship.

Wherever you are on your love quest remember you are a beautiful soul & I wish you only the best x.

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Tarot Court Cards – The Court of the suit of Cups

Posted on February 23, 2012 by paulomara

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Tarot The Court of the suit of Cups

Continuing my journey through the Court cards, the court cards, though puzzling initially are fantastic indicators of the people who are in, or are going to impact, the questioner’s life. I find it useful to describe the energy that I am picking up from any court card that appears as sometimes the questioner will recognise the personality traits and know who the card represents. Sometimes even if the card represents a different sex you can sense & interpret the qualities of the individual the cards are trying to portray. This is why I think it is wise to avoid learning a regimented meaning for each card & just interpret the person you feel coming through.
Each of my Pages indicates the seed of the personality of the suit. The Pages always bear messages related to the inherent qualities associated with their court.
Knights take the inherent qualities of their suit to the next level, the youths of the suit. Learning to trust in their choices & abilities, fight for their beliefs, sometimes in the extreme.
The Queens of each suit take the seed of the Page, the enthusiasm of the Knight and magnify these qualities to nurture & expand on the characteristics of their court to encourage development & growth.
Kings are the embodiment of the energy of each suit. The power that drives & commands their court. They are leaders, innovators, their ambition to achieve their goals is very motivational. Usually larger than life personalities, they will certainly command attention.

The Court of the suit of Cups in Tarot

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The King of Cups
An emotional creative fair man, educated, knowledgeable on spiritual matters with strong intuition. Seen with a short sceptre to his left, the ornate cup of this suit to his right; his domain is the sea; on one side a ship is seen riding the waves a colourful fish is leaping. A smaller fish is seen passing a message to the golden robed crowned king. The Lord of the Waves & the Waters.

Divinatory Meanings: Fair man involved in business, science, law, or spirituality; responsible, will be of help to the questioner; intelligent & creative.

Queen of Cups
Beautiful, fair, otherworldly woman, often a visionary. Creative, emotional but in control. She is dynamic & hypnotic. She implicitly understands situations & acts accordingly to manifest the best possible outcome. Often a dreamer who has the power to help you shape your reality.

Divinatory Meanings: Trustworthy, fair woman; honest & loyal. Once befriended will be devoted and helpful in the questioners life. Loving and intelligent, has the gift of vision; guarantees success. Enjoys a pleasurable existence forged by wise choices. Virtuous can be a perfect spouse and an amazing mother.

Knight of Cups
Physically fit non confrontational, organised man. Rides quietly through a charmed life, symbolised by the winged helmet. Highly imaginative & of inspirational character. As per the quality of the suit is aware of his emotions & is a dreamer. Can be a perfectionist which often hinders completion of his elaborate projects.

Divinatory Meanings: Dawning of life changing ideas. The arrival of a messenger. Advancement, propositions or invitations that should be capitalised on, opportunities that should be recognised.

Page of Cups
A pleasing personality, sometimes eccentric. A master of gentle persuasion. Able to manifest an emotional response in those he interacts with. Seen contemplating a fish messenger rising from the cup of the suit. Often instrumental in defusing volatile situations
Divinatory Meanings: Fair young man, one who is adept at social interaction, will be of use to the questioner with solid advice. Educated, emotionally intelligent. Bearer of news, can stimulate messages from the subconscious.

I hope you enjoy the cards & I wish you all the best x Paul

Tarot The Court Cards The suit of Wands

Posted on February 14, 2012 by paulomara

The Tarot Court Cards

The Court cards can cause confusion when someone begins to interpret the Tarot. Many years ago I abandoned the little white books that come with Tarot decks & decided to rely on intuition to decipher the message my deck was showing me. I list the accepted meanings of the court or ‘people’ cards here. As I have progressed through designing my Tarot deck I have met inspirational people who embody the essence of the card for me. They now represent the court card & as you can see there are still some blanks waiting to be filled !. When a ‘person’ card lands in a questioners spread there are certain standards that apply, like the Pages always represent messengers, though as I said I like to open up my intuition & try & describe the person that my Tarot deck is trying to refer to.

Today I would like to introduce the court cards of the suit of Wands

The Tarot Court cards of The suit of Wands

The Wands

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The Page of Wands

A young creative person has a message of great importance. He is unfamiliar but trustworthy and his knowledge will surprise.

Divinatory Meanings: Dark young man, faithful, a lover, an envoy, a postman. Beside a man, he will bear favorable testimony concerning him. Not to be crossed, especially if followed by the Page of Cups. Has the primary qualities of his suit shown by the flaming wand. He may signify family concerns that need to be dealt with.

Reversed: Anecdotal information, announcements, unsettling news. Possibly indecision and the instability which accompanies it.

The Knight of Wands

Enigmatic & conscious that life is a journey, with a sprouting wand, is not on heading in to battle. He is passing through a desert like landscape. The energy of his horse is symbolic of his energy, and suggests that the questioner is embarking on an exciting phase, with life-changing consequences.

Divinatory Meanings: Departure from the norm, an exciting encounter, flight, movement. A dark young man, friendly & gregarious. Change of residence.

Reversed: Instability, division, interruption, discord.

Queen of Wands

The Wands throughout this suit are always budding, representing potential, as it is a suit of creativity and action. Emotionally and in interpretation, the Queen’s personality corresponds to that of the King, but is more diplomatic & alluring.

Divinatory Meanings: An intuitive woman, a channel, sociable, respectable, loving, honorable. If the card beside her signifies a man, a romantic connection is possible; if a woman, she is of great importance in the life of the questioner. Focused, & extremely powerful in capturing creativity & applying it to a business environment.

Reversed: Economical social interaction, too obliging. Can represent unfounded opposition, jealousy, & gossip or underhand behaviour.

King of Wands

The physical and emotional nature to which this card is attributed is intelligent, enigmatic, respected, aarticulate, impassioned & noble. The King wields a flowering wand, and exhibits a scroll beside his crown. He connects with the symbol of the lion, Leo which blazes in glory between the salamander messengers .

Divinatory Meanings: Erudite man, personable, educated, honest, conscientious. The card always signifies honesty, and involves unexpected information revealed before very long. Reversed: Good prospects, but challenging; a time of honest reviewal of prospects.

Court Cards a general overview

People tend to fall into particular personality types whether they be introvert or extrovert, optimist or pessimist, philanthrope or misanthrope and so on. There are a number of psychological and behavioral tests that exist to determine these personality types. The same principle applies to the reading of tarot cards. The court cards in tarot, represented by Queens, Kings, Pages and Knights, are generally considered to be the most difficult to read. The reason for this is because what the cards represent depending on the querent is somewhat ambiguous. However when understood properly they are one of the most useful cards to signify people in a querent’s life.

The trick to fully understanding court cards is to know what they signify in the context of a given spread. Court cards usually refer to people, whether it be the querent themselves of someone in their life. In general Queens and Kings refer to adults, Knights to youths and Pages to young children. Though the court cards usually refer to people this does not have to be the case. They can also carry symbolic meaning. For example a Knight could represent a ‘trip’ or ‘journey’ given that they ride on horseback. A King may refer to personality traits involving leadership and command.

Another helpful way to put the court cards into context is by using Zodiac signs. If you are uncertain of the meaning of a particular court card then you can look to it’s Zodiac sign. What Zodiac signs the court cards are aligned with will depend on the deck you are using. Using Zodiac signs shouldn’t be a hard and fast rule however, they are merely there to guide you if you are otherwise unsure. If you have a string inclination that the King/Fire is a Taurus but the pack has aligned it with Capricorn then you should go with your own intuition.

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Valentine’s Day Love tarot

Posted on February 7, 2012 by paulomara

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It’s almost here, Valentine’s Day. Unsurprisingly quite a few people having readings are asking the same question, “Will Cupid fire his arrow for me this year ?”. Valentine’s Day has become hugely commercial & is a really big deal for a lot of people that see it as the main chance for attracting a partner, or even better a soulmate. Is this realistic ?.

As I’ve said many times, until you really start to truly love yourself & project your unique, authentic personality you simply won’t attract the love of your life. Think about it if you are ‘acting a part’ or projecting a stylised version of yourself, people are going to be interacting with that ‘other you’ & not your true persona.

When you accept yourself completely & are happy in your own skin, only then is it possible for someone to love you as you, & then the magic can begin !.

Alone for Valentine’s Day ?

Going to be alone on Valentine’s Day ?. Rather than wallow in self pity, treat yourself to a special day, do what makes you happy. If Chocolates, a glass of fizz & a bubble bath is your thing, go for it !, Cook yourself a special meal, you are a special soul & deserve it !.

The first step to finding love is always releasing the past, any previous relationships, & saying OK I’m ready now for the Universe to deliver some love in to my life !. There are many free resources on my sites that reinforce just that. Always popular at this time of year is my virtual Lovers spell. Just for fun what this does is allow you to make your resolution & release it into the ether. If you are looking for love give it a try !

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Saint Valentine’s day, commonly referred to as simply Valentine’s Day is a holiday occurring on the 14th day of the month of February. Valentine’s Day is a day set aside for lovers to express their love for one another. Lovers who wish to show affection to their significant other on Valentine’s Day usually present their partner with gifts ranging from flowers; red roses and white roses are extremely popular, luxuries like fine chocolate or strawberries & of course presenting them with a slushy Valentines card !. Anonymous Valentine’s Day cards are of course always good fun !. You can send someone a virtual boost of love with my Lovers Tarot postcard.
Valentine’s Day has been popular since as far back as the middle ages. Valentines gifts were extremely popular back even centuries ago, although written Valentines greetings were not dominant until after the 1400’s. In modern times, Valentine’s Day is extremely popular in the United States, Canada, Mexico, England, France and other Western nations. It is common for lovers, friends and even family to share tokens of appreciation with each other on Valentine’s Day. Some people choose different ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day; spending time with loved ones and exchanging gifts are the most common. Going out to a nice restaurant or preparing a special dinner for your significant other is an extremely popular way to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Red Roses are thought to signify love and a sense of care for the other person, though they mysteriously become more expensive around this time of year !. Recently, homemade gifts have become extremely popular, the extra thought and effort put into a lovely homemade gift is a great way to truly show your special person that you deeply care for them. Instead of buying a generic card from a corner store, why not create a handmade card with your own unique greeting to your lover ?. Writing love poetry is perhaps the biggest and most thoughtful gesture you can display on Valentine’s Day. The aim is to truly make your Valentine’s Day meaningful to you and those you are sharing your love with, because it is a special day and a memorable way to show gestures of love to those that you care about. Remember though when your lover tells you that you should not waste your money on Valentine’s gifts, you can be sure they don’t mean it !.

Wherever you are & whoever you are with, I wish you a joyful Valentine’s Day !..

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Lucky Omens – Black Cats

Posted on January 31, 2012 by paulomara

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Many people around the world believe in lucky omens even if they wouldn’t necessarily describe themselves as superstitious. There are certain lucky and unlucky omens that are so prevalent in society that most people believe and adhere to them to some extent. For example most people would avoid walking under a ladder if they have chance,even though they may not really believe it will bring them bad luck. Belief in omens is a subconscious belief for most people, it has been part of human culture for centuries and continues to be passed down through the generations.

One of the more interesting omens are black cats. Whether you believe black cats to be a sign of luck or misfortune will usually depend on where on the globe you live. In the UK and Japan to come across a black cat is considered a good omen. Whilst if you live in the US and many other European countries it is considered a bad sign. Whilst a cat might seem like a strange choice for an omen it is somewhat understandable. Cats have lived alongside human beings for millennia and were worshipped in ancient Egypt. They were also considered sacred by Romans.

Some other popular omens include -

• Breaking a Mirror – this is considered to be a very omen and in many cultures is said to bring you 7 years worth of bad luck
• Friday 13th – Many people consider this to be an unlucky day on the calendar where they are more prone to misfortune
• Finding a Horseshoe – This is considered to be one of the luckiest symbols bringing good fortune to whomever finds it
• Spilt Salt – Spilling salt is considered a bad sign so to reverse this many people will toss the spilt salt over their left shoulder.
• Knocking on Wood – Many people knock on wood to bring them luck or avoid misfortune in a certain situation. This dates back to a time when certain cultures believed God lived in trees.

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Finding love in 2012

Posted on January 21, 2012 by paulomara

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Last night I had the joy of watching a friend of mine falling in love. A lot of people ask me “Why can’t I find the right person / when will I meet my soulmate”, it was no different with this lady. As I watched her flirting like a teenager, I felt secretly pleased, the last time I gave her a reading The Lovers indeed featured, however the primary message was that until she really began to love herself for the fabulous woman she is, and stopped looking for the perfect person she had created in her mind, she would still be searching for love.

Finding love in 2012, is this your year ?

Valentines Day is approaching, looking for love in 2012, is it possible, Is this your year?

If you’re like most people the New Year brings a time when we try and revaluate ourselves our desires & our goals. We look at our weight, our jobs, our finances and many times our relationships, or lack of one !. We usually sit down and make a plan to change what we don’t like and build on what we do. For many single people finding someone to share their life with or spend time with is at the top of their New Year resolutions. Life is a journey that is better travelled when you can share your successes and your failures with someone you love. Is this the year you’ll find love? How important is finding a partner to you? 2012 could very well be the year you find love if you plan correctly. Here are some suggestions to increase your odds of success.

Take the initiative

Most of us have many responsibilities we must allocate time for or they don’t get done. Work must be taken care of. Groceries must be purchased. Dishes and laundry must be washed. The list goes on and on. All our responsibilities we make time for. We set aside time and put energy into them so they are sure to be completed. The same goes for finding a companion. You must make time to send out vibes that you are looking for love. You must make time to socialise and interact with real people. Sitting on the couch and waiting for Mr. or Ms. Right to stumble through your front door is not going to find you a life companion. If you’re serious about finding someone special. Get off the couch, off Facebook and go to singles events. Go to every party you’re invited to, attend meet-ups, happy hours and functions where real people interact. If you have an interest join a club where you can meet like minded people. Most of all though, accept that you are a unique soul, a wonderful individual & you deserve to be loved !.

Take Some Chances, Change your Mindset

So you’ve decided to get serious about attracting someone special. You’ve taken initiative, you’ve dedicated time with real people and now you need to take a few risks. I’m not talking about being foolish and making a date, with a stranger, for the first time in a dark alley. Taking risks doesn’t mean jeopardising your values or safety. What I’m talking about is visualising yourself in an exciting new relationship. If you have a fixed idea and know exactly how your ideal mate looks or how he / she will behave, I’m afraid you are probably set to be disappointed. Take a little risk, ask the universe to deliver a new partner and you might be pleasantly surprised. Perhaps date someone a little older, maybe take a chance with someone a bit younger than your ideal. Dating should be a fun time and a time for trying new things. Break the mould and see that maybe what you’ve been searching for isn’t really what you want after all.

Put Yourself in a Position for Success

If you’re sitting in front of a television or computer waiting for your dream guy / girl to walk through the door, you’ve pretty much set yourself up for failure and another year of wondering when love will arrive.

Understand people that are successful at dating are generally successful are not luckier, prettier or smarter than you. They just put themselves in better circumstances, increasing their odds favourably, to find and court the type of person that could be that someone special. 2012 could very well be the year you find love if you take the initiative, dedicate your wish to the universe, take a few chances and put yourself in a position for success.

If you are looking for love, I seriously hope Cupid comes looking for you very soon. I am off for lunch with my partner of 10 years, we are still incredibly happy & yes, they are nothing like my imagined ‘type’ …

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I hope you manifest everything you desire x

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Tarot Affirmations in The Major Arcana

Posted on January 20, 2012 by paulomara

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The Tarot Major Arcana, each card has a myriad meanings & symbols that unlock more mysteries contained in the Major keys. Often when a questioner selects a Major key as a significator I like to express the feelings that each card gives rise to for me. Almost always these inbuilt affirmations have a strange relevance to the person sat in front of me & where they are on their current path. Here is a list of correspondences, I hope you enjoy them :
0 The Fool – restore default setting, Slow down. You are not responsible for doing it all yourself, right now
1 Magician – What skill do you have that you would like to get paid for, Quit planning how you’re going to use what you know, learn, or possess. Your gifts just are; be grateful and their purpose will be clear.
2 High Priestess – have you really listened to your internal voice, intuition ? Listen to the wind blow. It carries a message of yesterday and tomorrow-and now. NOW counts
3 Empress – Take nothing for granted: re-engage with nature. Marvel at the wonders of the seasons.
4 Emperor - Set your own pace. When someone is pushing you, it’s OK to tell them they’re pushing. You are just as good as anyone who has ever lived.
5 Hierophant – What ritual do you need to establish, Create a place in your home, at your work, in your heart where you can go for quiet and recollection. You deserve it.
6 Lovers – All you need is love though you must truly love yourself before your soulmate will appear.
7 Chariot – What do you need to fight What battle can you not win ? Slow down. You are not responsible for doing it all yourself, right now
8 Strength – You need to draw on your inner reserves, Taste your food. Nature provides it to delight as well as to nourish.
9 Hermit – What have you internalised, Take time just to think. Action is good and necessary, though only useful if tempered by considered thought.
10 The Wheel of Fortune – Accept unconditionally now that the wheel turns in your favour. Really reconnect with life. Take time to truly listen to those you value.
11 Justice – Major choices will you be brave enough – Significant life changes can now have magical impact.
12 Hanged Man – You are suspended, Allow yourself time to be lazy and unproductive. Rest isn’t luxury; it’s a necessity.
13 Death – Man dies many times in his life. What would you do if this was the last week of your existence on this plane? . Remember a happy, peaceful time in your past. Rest there, truly savour each moment.
14 Temperance – Talk slower. Talk less. Don’t talk. Communication isn’t measured by words. Think deeper, look longer, nothing is as it seems.
15 The Devil – Beware Inner vices. Every thought has consequences. Thoughts become things. Use your thoughts to create your new reality.
16 The Tower – The facade crumbles, Your world will not collapse Give yourself permission to be late sometimes. Life is for living, not scheduling.
17 The Star – Rest on your laurels. Regroup to be ready to accept the new bright prospects that are set to appear.
18 The Moon – Dreams, Notice the sun and the moon as they rise and set. They are remarkable for their steady pattern of movement, not their speed
19 The Sun – Reconnect to your inner child. Make time for play – the things you like to do. Whatever your age, your inner child needs recreation.
20 Judgement – Don’t judge your words. When you talk with someone, don’t think about what you’ll say next. Thoughts will spring up naturally if you let them.
21 The World – Envision love engulfing everyone on the planet. Listen for the next the song of a bird; imagine that song carrying a message of joy all around the world

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