Learning to Love Yourself


I get many mails from people searching for love & trying to re-ignite a relationship that has gone off the boil. The question is usually “How do I get them to love me ?”. I always answer before you can be loved, or truly love another, you must learn to love yourself. Not in a narcissistic way, but to truly be comfortable in your own skin.
Learning to love yourself
People tend to spend so much of their time waiting to be loved; they hope love will find them, so they searching for that special love and end up feeling empty and lost if they don’t have it. Contrary to popular opinion, life doesn’t usually work like that. Loving yourself is mainly having self-respect which is the only sure way to create love in your own life that you will eventually share with others. When people begin to expect love from an external source, and that external source-someone or something- does not fill their void and fantasies, it will only lead to the person feeling worse than before. For one to be able to be loved, they must first love and respect themselves as much as they do others.
Learning to love yourself is not an easy task, but the hardships are well worth the risk. It is good to express yourself in any way you can; if you have an opinion, let it be heard, if you have something on your mind, put it put there. Expressing yourself will go a long way in helping you to value yourself and your opinions, instead of allowing other people to influence you. Besides learning to properly express yourself, you should also learn to stop punishing yourself for past mistakes. People often fall into the trap of punishing themselves for events that transpired in the past; this behavioral mind set is very detrimental to learning to truly love one’s self. Instead of punishing yourself for a past mistake, learn to look at your past experiences as a lesson learned. Forgiving yourself is perhaps one of the biggest steps in learning to love yourself. Patience and persistence also go a long way in helping you achieve your goals of self-respect. You should start to work towards what you want to achieve by doing something positive, learning to have a more positive outlook or being enthusiastic about your situation. You should adopt the attitude of defining yourself through the things you have accomplished instead of ruminating on the things you do not have yet. Learning to love yourself as you are now because it is just as important as loving yourself when you feel you are perfect.

Lucille Ball once said you must “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world”. You must learn to be comfortable with who you really are; express yourself, let your voice be heard, play, sing, do whatever you wish. You shouldn’t be afraid of what others think of you, they too, most likely feel the same way you do and want to express themselves just as much as you, but are afraid to do so. Learning to love yourself  is the only way you can truly move forward in life.

I truly hope you manifest everything you desire.

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Love & Relationships, Tarot & Soulmates

After my previous post about the Tetragrammaton the sacred word which represents the divine power as we understand it, the next logical step is to focus on the very thing that underpins everything we do, The power of love. Many times during a reading a combination of cards such as those shown above, various cups cards, The Empress & of course The Lovers will leave me in no doubt that the person in front of me is searching for love.

Searching For True Love, The Perfect Soul Mate.

Just about everyone on this planet wants to be in love and enjoy the companionship that comes with it. While the vast majority of us will experience the pleasures that love can bring, it is important to understand that love means many different things to many different people. To some, the thought of experiencing love is nothing more than enjoying the rewards of some fleeting temptation. Or appreciating some agreeable companionship, that puts a little warmth into the cold dark nights of winter. Most of us however, are looking for the signs of true love. My most popular free Tarot readings are my Relationship Tarot, & my animated version, my ten card talking Relationship Tarot reading. We all eventually seek much more than satisfying temporary desires. How to find true love is probably the question I am asked the most. The pursuit of true love is what we should aspire to. The discovery of a true soul mate is uppermost in our mind. We are looking for the perfect someone, who can captivate us heart and soul, usually I find this very person is outside of our usual 'type' & can often appear to competely surprise us.

Some though can be left wondering what true love really is. Not everyone will come across it. At least not soon enough before their desire for companionship overshadows the search for soulful love. They will settle for less and fall into a relationship. Sure, romance may blossom and go on to evolve into a lasting bond that will grow in strength, as each partner slowly develops more and more reliance upon the other. In many ways, it can be at this very point that many think they have actually achieved what they first desired. They think they have found their true love, their soulmate, and just did not realize the fact at the start of the relationship. Many will go on to enjoy a full and satisfying partnership. The question will always remain, have they really found their true love? .

There are quite a few people who end up discovering their true love, while they are already in a comfortable relationship. Often left with the agonizing decision on whether or not to risk everything they already have and much of what they have achieved in life, for the chance of going after what could be true love, this is often a risk too difficult for many to take, leading to lifelong regrets. Those are the ones left wondering what would have been. Although, they at least have the satisfaction of feeling they have the next best thing. Of course, others already in a relationship, will jump in head first at the very thought of finally having discovered their true soul mate. While a few of those people just may have got it right, the vast majority soon realize the mistake they have made.

Many will say all you need is love, I wholeheartedly agree, more & more I realise that love is the force that creates everything has the potential to release our true potential.

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Tarot – The World – Relationships of The Major Arcana cards

My mother is currently fighting another health scare & is
constantly on my mind. I have decided to give her the ultimate position
in my deck & as my site gives thousands of free readings, her image
will be seen many times a day all around our beatiful planet. The World
represents The Great Awakening, it's mantra is You Mean The World To Me
.. Let Your light illuminate the World …

The World – The Great One of the Night of Time.

Every time The World appears in a reading incredible opportunities are
presented. You will certainly have worked hard to reach this pinnacle
of The Major Arcana. Move forward with certainty, you are outside of
the realms of normality, at the top of your game.

I am in the process of documenting all of my cards & the meaning of
Tarot, If you are interested in learning Tarot, this could be a good
place to start !.

Tarot The Major Arcana or The Greatest Secrets. (You can select the
name of each card to visit the corresponding page on my site ).

The Major arcana consists of 22 cards numbered from 0 to 21. They go
from complete ignorance to complete knowledge. The Fool, numbered 0 or
unnumbered, represents complete ignorance and oblivion to the world
around it. It is a card of innocence. Whereas The World, numbered 21,
represents complete understanding. Each card represents only one step
on the journey to understanding, in Tarot this is referred to as The
Fool's Journey.
Tarot 0 The Fool-
The fool is the fearless traveler. He leaps before he looks and speak
before he thinks. Positively associated with innocence, new beginnings,
joy, fearlessness, and spontaneity. Negatively associated with
thoughtlessness, immaturity, impulsiveness, lack of responsibility and
lawlessness.
Tarot 1 The Magician-
The Magician is a person of new opportunities and ambition. He has
incredible willpower, but is often overcome by his emotions. Positively
associated with confidence, individuality, willpower, new beginnings,
and inner potential. Negatively associated with trickery, deception,
lack of compassion, indecision, and abuse of power.
Tarot 2 The High Priestess-
The High Priestess is the guardian of hidden secrets. She keeps the
divine knowledge secretly tucked away for the right time to reveal.
Positively associated with intuitiveness, understanding, wisdom,
mystery, psychic ability, and the divine feminine. Negatively
associated with lack of a strong maternal influence, emotional
insecurity, secretiveness, and hidden obstacles or opponents.
Tarot 3 The Empress-
The Empress is a symbol of love, fertility and motherhood. She
represents compassion and devotion. Positively associated with
fertility, birth, motherhood, harmony, nature, prosperity, joy, love,
and artistic ambition. Negatively associated with domestic upheaval,
emotional blackmail, over-protectiveness, and suppressed logical
expression.
Tarot 4 The Emperor-
The Emperor is a sign of achievement and honour. He represents
paternity and strong leadership. Positively associated with
achievement, authority, protection, support, trustworthiness,
discipline,provider, consolidation, reason, and willpower. Negatively
associated with weakness, immaturity, failed ambition, status driven,
tyrannical, and an overbearing nature.
Tarot 5 The Hierophant-
The Hierophant is a symbol of moral law and convictions. He is also a
welcomed advisor and spiritual guide. Positively associated with
advice, wise counsel, spiritual consolation, knowledge, identification,
faith, conformity, and traditions. Negatively associated with
misinformation, lack of faith, deviousness, bad advice, confusion, and
disorderly conduct.
Tarot 6 The Lovers-
The Lovers represent a new breath of life. They symbolise love,
devotion and spiritual friendship. Positively associated with desire,
new lover, relationships, physical attraction, love, sex, and
commitment. Negatively associated with lust, moral lapse, temptation,
indecision, separation, failed love affairs, and emotional loss of
control.
Tarot 7 The Chariot-
The Chariot symbolises conflict and victory. It also represents unknown
forces pulling you forward quickly. Positively associated with triumph,
movement, change, self-belief, assertiveness, and good news. Negatively
associated with rage, tyranny, overinflated ego, selfishness,
arrogance, delays, and frustration.
Tarot 8 Justice-
This card directly means justice, fairness, and balance. It also has
sway over partnerships and legal matters. Positively associated with
justice, truth, integrity, balance, arbitration, responsibility, and
fairness. Negatively associated with prejudice, injustice, bad
judgement, bias, and bad advice.
Tarot 9 The Hermit-
The Hermit is a solitary person, one who looks for answers within and
away from others. he represents a time for solitude and peace.
Positively associated with introspection, solitude, guidance, advice,
and patience. Negatively associated with obstinacy, suspiciousness,
fear, impatience, folly, and arrogance.
Tarot 10 The Wheel of Fortune-
The Wheel of Fortune is a sign of fates spinning round and round
bringing in a new era. It represents the randomness of life and what
comes at you. Positively associated with destiny, movement, vision,
good luck, new cycle, and synchronicity. Negatively associated with
obstacles, temporary bad luck, and unpleasant surprises.
Tarot 11 Strength-
The Strength cards shows the inner resolves you have. It represents the
emotional, physical and spiritual strength associated with the
situation. Positively associated with strength, willpower, compassion,
patience, courage, triumph, and fortitude. Negatively associated with
over compensation, fear, inertia, defeat, loss of opportunity, and
entropy.
Tarot 12 The Hanged Man-
The Hanged Man symbolises self-sacrifice and the unaware mind. He is
representative of the blind sacrifice that is needed in the situation.
Positively associate with transition, flexibility, rebirth,
deliverance, and release. Negatively associated with materialism,
inflated ego, lack of willpower, easily influenced, and martyrdom.
Tarot 13 Death-
The Death card symbolises anything but that. It is a card of release
and starting over. It represents the absolute, both the end and the
beginning. Positively associate with endings, transformation,
clearance, and sweeping change. Negatively associated with stagnation,
loss of opportunity, loss of friendship, and fear of change.
Tarot 14 Temperance-
The Temperance card is a card of self-control and emotional mastery. It
represents the ability to handle overwhelming circumstances and
emotions. Positively associated with harmony, health, moderation,
compromise, peace, and self-control. Negatively associated with
impatience, lack of foresight, conflict, quarrels, and domestic strife.
Tarot 15 The Devil-
The Devil is the embodiment of primal instincts. Heated emotions runs
strong with him, passions devour the mind and self-control is lost.
Positively associated with permanence and commitment. Negatively
associated with entrapment, lust, greed, ignorance, anger, tyranny, and
obsession.
Tarot 16 The Tower-
The Tower shows the crumbling of stability and the breaking down of all
things. It represent change, upheaval and unwanted change. Positively
associated with re-evaluation, necessary change, and a blessing in
disguise. Negatively associated with sudden change, downfall,
disruption, and disaster.
Tarot 17 The Star-
The Star is a beacon shining through the darkness, a guiding light. It
represents renewal of faith, hope and youth. Positively associated with
hope, generosity, serenity, wishes coming true, good health, and
spiritual awareness. Negatively associated with self-doubt, lack of
trust,
cynicism, and pessimism.
Tarot 18 The Moon-
The Moon is a card of hidden and buried emotions. It casts and eerie
light over everything. It represents hard travels and a rough inner
journey. Positively associated with imagination, unexpected
possibilities, and illumination. Negatively associated with fear,
confusion, highly charged emotions, bewilderment, lies, and deceit.
Tarot 19 The Sun-
The Sun shines down on everything, giving warmth, life and joy. The Sun
is the light at the end of the tunnel, the source of all that is wished
for. Positively associated with happiness, greatness, enlightenment,
vitality, good health, love, and fulfilment. Negatively associated with
misjudgement, delays, potential failure, and inflated ego.
Tarot 20 Judgement-
Judgement heralds a time of reward. It is the card of wisdom and
acceptance. It represents new phases in life and new relationships with
the self. Positively associated with rebirth, rejoicing, absolution,
new potential, and rewards for past efforts. Negatively associated with
guilt, loss, self-reproach, delays, fear, and obstinacy.
Tarot 21 The World-
The World is the end & the beginning. The arrival of all the
desires you hoped for. It is the beginning and the end, the dream, the
hope and wish itself. Positively associated with success, completion,
satisfaction, joy, wholeness, and success. Negatively associate with
stagnation, lack of will, impatience, and delays.

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Tarot – The Tetragrammaton – The Sacred Name


The Tarot deck is a perfect example of the power of symbols, man has been using symbols since before recognised speech to represent meaning & document and understand his environment. I have always been fascinated by symbolism & talismans, magical formulas and esoteric meanings. Recently I have noticed people are asking me about other forms of focus, most frequently chants & also formulas hidden in the Tarot, especially the sacred word. Whenever I find myself in a challenging or stressful environment I mentally run through a sequence that has served me well over the years. I first discovered chants many years ago when I did a course in the mindfulness of breathing. This technique is designed to filter out all distractions & enable you to focus on whatever it is that important in that specific moment. I have a page on my site that illustrates the Tibetan Buddhist chant or mantra OM MANI PADME HUM the Dalai Lama's definition of which is the path that symbolises “the pure exalted body, speech, and mind of a Buddha”. The second mantra I employ is NAM-MYOHO-RENGE-KYO, which the 13th Century Japanese priest called the realisation of the Lotus Sutra, or greatest teaching of the first recorded buddha. However, the most powerful of my daily routines is I believe, the sacred word Yod – He – Vau – He.

The Sacred Word – The Tetragrammaton

While I go about my day merrily chanting in my head or occasionally out loud, I also mentally invoke Yod – He – Vau – He, The sacred hebrew word of Kabbalah that corresponds to the four suits of Tarot, the four elements and has been studied by all of the adepts & related to all mystery systems. This formula, the Tetragrammaton, representing the divine & the unrepresentable, has many correspondences to the Major Arcana in Tarot & is said to release all knowledge to those who can learn to correctly pronounce its name.

In the ancient script Tarot of the bohemians by Papus, the many correlations of the sacred word are explored for example this excerpt relating to numbers : “A number is attributed to each letter of the Hebrew alphabet. We must look at those which relate to the letters we are now considering.
‎י Yod = 10
‎ה he = 5
‎ו vau = 6
‎ה he = 5
The total numerical value of the word יהוה is therefore 10 + 5 + 6 + 5 = 26.”

For more on the power of numbers visit my Numerology page.

The almost endless links of these magical symbols never cease to fascinate me, I have used the central diagram of kabbalah for many years, notably in my Tree of Life Tarot spreads which are available as a static Tarot reading or in an animated talking Tarot reading. Free spoken Tree of Life Tarot reading

I am re-reading The Tarot of the Bohemians again as I am rediscovering the relationship between the hebrew letters as I travel through the Tarot deck & add a page for each card to the new format of my site. It is not an easy read, but fascinating & highly recommended for anyone interested in the hidden mysteries of The Tarot. To study the symbolism of the Tarot & unravel the secret language of the initiates is an exciting journey that unlocks endless levels of understanding. Though the Tarot appears in it's simplest form as a pack of cards, it is an always changing story that can ignite the intuition of those who come under it's spell.

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Moldavite the stone of transformation & the Star in Tarot

I am recently back from a jaunt to Glastonbury where I was visiting my
mother. There is no doubt that there are many special energies
operating on the isle of Avalon. I stayed at the fabulous George &
Pilgrim hotel, though was again disappointed not to encounter any
ghosts. There are an awful lot of spiritual shops & many
practitioners, this time I decided that I wanted to buy something that
I could wear on my person to remind me of Glastonbury & began to
trawl around the alleys & courtyards in search of a special piece.
This where my incredible encounter with Moldavite began. I followed the
advice of several Crystal therapists & decided to acquire the piece
that 'spoke' to me. So after a lunch with my sister who many years ago
introduced me to the Tarot in Glastonbury,
I found myself literally hypnotised by a silver ring with a large
green, glass-like pitted stone. I purchased it without thinking &
whilst showing it off proudly, was told buy a crystal expert that
Moldavite should come with a warning. Apparently this stone is an
extraterrestrial cosmic gem that arrived in Moldovia as an asteroid
around 14,000,000 years ago. The jokes were that the only more powerful
stone was Kryptonite, (which is of course fictional) & I should be
extremely careful as Moldavite is the stone of transformation &
only arrives in your life when major changes need to be initiated.
Well, I have never really been very susceptible to the vibrational
energy of crystals, however, this was soon to change with my new
companion. I climbed Glastonbury Tor as I always do, & whilst up
there became extremely dis-orientated & dizzy, I had physical
sensations of heat & on a couple of occasions thought I was going
to pass out. That evening I had one of the best curries I have ever had
& slept like a baby. The next day I had many incredible
conversations with my mother about pivotal points in her life & we
parted with me feeling like there was something definitely changing in
my life. Since then on my return to London things have got even
stranger, my intuition has been boosted & even when travelling on
public transport I found it hard to 'close down'. Apparently Moldavite
is renowned for accelerating spiritual development & opening the
3rd eye.

My dreams have become incredibly cinematic,  I have definitely found
that I have something resonating with me at a very deep level. Things
that need to be changed have become immediately apparent & I have
found new ways of diffusing situations or responding to things that
previously been challenging. Material things have also quickly
materialised, a totally unexpected & not unsubstantial windfall arrived &
I was contacted by a magazine who wish to do a story about my life
& the development of my Tarot cards.
In short this has been an incredibly eye opening fast track in to the
world of crystal energy. I have been advised to remove the ring as
maybe it is too powerful for me at this time in my development. This is
something as I am not about to do as I am really enjoying the rapid
change & exciting development that I am accrediting to the arrival
of my green friend. If you are looking for an adventure & think you
can handle it, seek out some Moldavite, but be prepared for some sudden
changes !. I have just discovered that this stone corresponds to The
Star tarot card in the Major Arcana
, The Daughter of the Firmament,
Dweller between the Waters.

The meaning of the Star is Inspiration, Enlightenment, Faith,
Revelation, Foresight, Excitement, Acceptance, Peace & Confidence,
so if this ring encourages those qualities then bring it on !.

To your sucess !

Paul

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Developing the intuition
When you begin to focus your intuition & develop your rapport with those who come to you for a psychic reading, you have to begin to trust your senses, release your fears & really work on listening to the inner voice.

The most difficult part of beginning to give Tarot readings is to see beyond the painted images & see the real issues that are surrounding the questioner. Sometimes it is a struggle & you will have to work hard to show that what the person has been experiencing may not actually be the real reality.
Many times I have given readings to people who want to re-kindle a broken relationship, for example, & thought “Why do you want to go back to something that really didn't bring you happiness?.” Sometimes people can not “see for looking” & the journey you take with them through their reading should allow them to see their existence from a different perspective, hopefully be able to see an alternative route that could lead them to a happier outcome.
In Buddhism it is often called 'the thousand things', all of the myriad distractions that bombard our senses & stop us from seeing the truth in everyday situations.

We must escape from these distractions to avoid becoming trapped in repetitive patterns that stops us from revealing our true potential, the light that will reveal our authentic persona & allows us to truly live the life we are meant to.

It is also crucial to realise that everyone who we interact with has been presented to us so that we can learn a specific lesson. We naturally focus selfishly on ourselves, if we can but really see the individuals that we encounter on a daily basis, we then naturally start to uncover the path that will eventually lead us to our personal happiness.

When we begin to tune in to other people & take the focus off of ourselves, then we begin to transcend the five senses & intuition begins to reveal things just outside of our usual consciousness.

The more we develop our inner light, the more our readings begin to reveal more through the forces of rapport & intuition. We begin to rely less on the 'tools', such as Tarot cards & begin to be able to have a powerful effect on all those who we encounter.

Next time You are giving a reading try & connect to your intuition & try & rely less on the tools or standardised meanings. You May be surprised.

To your sucess !

Paul

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Tarot – Intuition & developing the Tarot reading

Hi There, Tarot is my life's work & I am proud of my deck & research. Many people ask me how to move their interest to the next level, here are some hints based on my earliest experiences.

How to develop your Tarot reading technique – The minors the majors & the court cards in a Tarot spread


Tarot readings can provide direction on any situation. Sometimes people who come to you to consult the cards will present a direct question, in this situation you can use a 'significator' ( a card that is relevant to the question being asked, for example if someone has romantic or partnership questions then The Lovers or the Two of Cups could be drawn ).

What to do if the questioner offers no specific question or simply wants a general reading, where then do you start ?

Most people are overwhelmed when they first begin to give Tarot readings themselves. Remember Tarot is only a tool, each key can represent different life experiences & only becomes relevant when the image begins to spark your intuition. When beginning each reading the minor arcana or lesser secrets will usually reveal the overall concerns of the questioner. If the questioner doesn't present an actual question, which would prompt you to choose a 'significator' card. Then you should try & pick up an impression by the story building with the minors that appear in the spread.

Each suit has a correspondence to different areas of a persons life. For example, if you see a prevalence of Cups cards in a reading, then it is fair to say that there would be emotional concerns surrounding the questioner. Pentacles often refer to matters of finance. Wands very often refer to a period of creativity, especially around new projects. Should there be a concentration of Swords cards then a powerful period of challenge requiring a great deal of thought is indicated before a solution can be reached.

From a numerological point of view each card within each suit represents how developed the situation is. The Aces are the spark, the initiation of a development. As we get closer to the Ten in each suit then we are heading towards the completion of events.

When Court cards appear in the reading you can interpret their involvement at a very basic level by relating the following examples. The Pages, younger people who will have influence. Knights, dynamic people who will affect the outcome. The Queens, women who will reveal something that is relevant. The Kings, men who will bring something to bear on how the situation develops. As your understanding of Tarot develops, by using these general overviews & layering on the specific meaning for each court card, you will be amazed at how quickly your abilities develop. Finally when everything drops in to place & your intuition is fired by the images on the cards, your Tarot readings will move to an entirely different level. You will begin to pick up on scenarios that are not represented in your deck & develop a very strong rapport with whoever comes to you for a reading.

The Major Arcana, or greatest secrets are the 'Big guns' of The Tarot experience. The Lovers, The Magician, The World. Each one of these powerful archetypes relates to a major life event, a paradigm shift in a person's reality. Should more than one Major key appear in a persons reading, then great changes await. This is a much more frequent occurrence than you may at first think. Personally I feel that it is because people often wait to consult me for a reading until they feel that changes are set to occur. Each Major key has far reaching significance & as such should be treated with respect. Often the questioner will have a subliminal reaction to the Major cards, this is why you should be familiar with these archetypes before you introduce them in to your readings. It is crucially important that you are comfortable around the cards that are perceived as 'scary'. Death for example does not signify physical Death, however due to the way Tarot has been represented Death, the Devil & any of the 'darker' cards can cause an unexpected reaction in the questioner that must be well managed by the reader. Always remember it is your responsibility to send the questioner away feeling empowered & any misinterpretation can leave dangerous impressions in the mind of the sitter.

I hope this post inspires you to try a different approach in your readings.

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Celtic Cross – Tarot Psychic reading

The Celtic Cross

My most popular spread is known as the Celtic Cross, and is the most well known, and most used spread of them all.

A Significator card is chosen, and placed on the table first, face up. The cards are then thoroughly shuffled by you, before handing them to the questioner to be shuffled further. They are then cut using the same method as in my previous post The Regal Arch Tarot Spread.

The cards are then placed face up in the following order :

The Significator is already face up on the table. The first card is placed directly on top of the Significator. The next card is placed crosswise on top of the first. The third is placed above these, and the is fourth placed below.

The first two cards represent the questioners emotions & intentions, and are read first. The third and fourth Tarot cards are the influences that affect these emotions, and are the next to be read.

The fifth card is placed to the left of the others, and is represents past influences.

The sixth card is the influence for the future, and is placed to the right of the others. After this card is read, you may ask the questioner whether this particular influence is present in their life yet.

The final four cards are place to the extreme right of the others in a vertical line. They are read from the bottom to the top.

An example of a Celtic Spread :

A quick overview of initial impressions that may arise :

“With the first four cards all being Major Arcana, I get the impression that your present emotions are being ruled by outside influences.

The first card being the Fool reversed, represents you, thinking of a new start. This could possibly travel, or a job, certainly a change of some kind. The first impression being that this change could possibly have an element of risk or excitement.

The Devil indicates that indeed an outside influence has been the temptation for this change, and could also have an obsessional element.

The third and fourth cards (Judgement and Wheel of Fortune), indicate there has been some serious thought put into this development, which has more than likely been brought about by a change of luck, or a possible improvement in finances. Therefore the tentative venture may not be as risky as my first impressions indicated.

The fifth card (Strength reversed) is the past influence, indicating that there has been a period of negative thinking holding you back. Possibly, a feeling of inadequacy regarding making future plans or abilities. It is apparent that some kind of positive change is imminent, though some work regarding self worth will be necessary to bring about a new approach to emotional thinking.

The sixth card (seven of Wands reversed) is the dominant factor representing the near future. Future plans should be dealt with methodically, make a list. A mistake at this point, or misinterpretation of advice could cause delay. You must stand your ground.  

After a short period of consideration, and some minor changes have been made, a decision will be arrived at, or an opportunity will be presented to you, and positive changes ,will occur (signified by the seventh card, Death), bringing an end to a certain concern. With this will come a certain freedom.

The eighth card (ten of Pentacles) indicates that the success of this change is the result of accumulative past efforts, and it will be felt that this change should have been made long ago.

The Magician indicates that creative ideas will emerge, and will bring the beginning of a bright new future. You have the ability to literally create your ideal future now.

The tenth card (seven of Swords reversed), tells that all will be well in the future, and perseverance will ensure that that the ball keeps rolling. However emotional baggage & burdens that have been weighing you down must now be completely released.”

Further notes on the Celtic Cross

This reading is perfect for a general overview. No specific questions need to be asked by the questioner

When a specific question is directly asked, the significator card can be one that represents the question. With a question of romance, one of the Cup cards may be used, and finances may be represented by one of the Pentacle cards etc. The entire reading may then be based on the question.

Time zones have not be mentioned in respect to this reading, as this interpretation will differ from one reader to the other. The future cards in the Celtic Cross layout, represent approximately six to eight weeks. Go with your own instincts and intuition, you will be surprised by your accuracy. Once you get the 'feel' of the cards, you will be able to work out your own time factors.

Another method to predict future influences, is to place the significator card on the table, and after the questioner has shuffled the cards, lay twelve cards around the significator in a circle, rather like a clock, either face up or face down. Each of these cards will represent a month.

The card at the one o'clock position can represent January, two o'clock February, and so on. Locate the card that represents the present month, and read the one following. Keep going around the circle clockwise, reading each card in turn. This will give a general forecast for the following twelve months.

There is no hard and fast rule for reading the Tarot. You will develop your own style and method as you gain experience, remember this experience is based on your intuitive impressions from a deck of painted cards. You hold great responsibility in what is said to the questioner & an ethical code is imperative. Under no circumstances discuss medical or legal implications. If these questions are raised always point the questioner in the direction of the relevant professional body.

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Tarot Psychic readings – The Regal Arch

Tarot in Psychic Readings – The Regal Arch Spread

The Regal Arch Tarot spread is a simple nine card layout, which unsurprisingly, takes the shape of an arch. This Tarot spread is usually used for a quick general reading when time is limited.

It isn't necessary to use a Significator for this spread. The questioner shuffles the cards until she feels comfortable that they are well mixed. Using their left hand, the cards are cut into three separate piles. They are then gathered up into a single packet in any order.

This is my preferred method of cutting the Tarot deck, and I  use it almost always for all of the Tarot spreads I use regularly.

The Tarot cards are taken back by the reader and laid face down in the following order forming the arch:

The first three cards represent the past, the second three (4 5, and 6) signify the present, and the final three, the possible future outcome. If a theme for the reading is required, the fifth card can be placed face up. This being the significator card, will then represent the focus of the layout, and can be the influence for the reading. It is not necessary to use the significator card in this way, although if it is not clear if the sitter has any particular questions, it can reveal underlying influences.

The usual method for this spread is to read card number one first, then number two, and so on until the reading is complete. If, when turning the first card over, you do not receive an impression, turn the next two cards over simultaneously, you will then feel a pattern emerge. Reading the cards in blocks of three, will make it a lot easier for you, especially if you are just learning to trust your intuition.

From the first three cards, you should get an impression of the questioners situation & recent past. You should reveal the story shown on the cards, to confirm your thoughts, that you are on the right track. Cards four, five and six will represent the present situation. When you come to card number five, mention this as being the significator and slide it forward. Next, read the final three Tarot cards, the possible influence for the future.

Example Tarot Regal Arch reading

Quick interpretation :
“There has been some unexpected news or good fortune in the recent past, and possibly the loss of faith in an acquaintance, in your circle perhaps (6 Wands reversed). This has brought about a paradigm shift in your thoughts, along with some new found faith in your intuition (Strength).

Some thoughts or even plans for future travel with someone close have more than likely been made (6 Swords). There also appears to have been some recent news of, or from, an old friend ( Knight of Cups reversed).

The fifth card, which is the key card,, represents present emotions, and indicates there may be some concern whether or not there will be an improvement in finances linked to following your dream, plus if a positive change will take place in regard to a certain relationship (King of Wands).

This change may have already- begun to manifest (Ten Swords reversed), but be on the alert for some unfounded gossip.

There will be a period when things will seem to come to a standstill, this will be a a good time for relaxation, spiritual focus, and to plan ahead.  (Four of Swords reversed),

A decision will be made, but not before some careful consideration and protracted weighing up of the situation (Two of Pentacles reversed).

The outcome is very good indeed for everyone concerned. Plans and decisions will all work out to your best advantage (Ace Cups).” After the reading is where I would layer on my intuitive impressions. This Spread is great for a quick focused Tarot experience.

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Tarot Readings – Psychic Readings – Discovering your passion


The power of images ! I mentioned this photograph to my sister just the other day. Though she had forgotten it, I could actually see it in my minds eye & am so happy it still exists. It is a photograph of me giving readings at a party looking every inch the Irish Gypsy !. We thought it had been lost in the mists of time. Then whilst my sis was sorting some old Christmas cards, what should flutter to the ground ?. The mysterious black cat was called Chan, half siamese, she certainly used all of her 9 lives to the full !. The crystal ball belonged to my mother & I have recently re-acquired it, it's power is again energising our home.

The period of my life represented by this photograph, some 30+ years ago, corresponded to me finally discovering my passion, my purpose, my raison d'être if you will. In retrospect I should not have been unleashed at that party !, I had recently been gifted my first Tarot & was just firing impressions that I was receiving. I remember telling one lady that a greenhouse was significant, ( it transpired that an event had occurred in a greenhouse that wasn't exactly in keeping with the lighthearted atmosphere of the party). I told one gentleman that he drove a fire engine, the sirens literally ringing in my ears. He did not, but he did work on a council department that had recently been given responsibility for the fire department. I asked another gentleman to select a card & when he drew the Devil card I started describing his dark side that he kept well hidden. His wife agreed wholeheartedly, unfortunately this guy's quite committed christian sensibilities were challenged & my readings were swiftly curtailed by our host.
After that party, I remember feeling elated, that I had discovered, finally, something that I really enjoyed. Interacting with people & giving readings was something I knew I was destined to do for the rest of my life.

Responsibility & encouragement
Now many years later, & after many 1,000s of readings I still have unbridled enthusiasm for giving readings. However, I now realise the responsibility involved in performing a reading. Though I was enthusiastic & excited to be entertaining the guests, I hadn't yet worked out the dynamics of an empowering experience for my sitter.
Yesterday I was giving a reading for a lady & showed her this fabulous photo that had just arrived in the post. As the reading progressed I saw that what I was doing was completely different to how the boy on the photograph would have approached the situation. The card that kept re-appearing was the Eight of Cups, The Lord of Abandoned Success. Although this Lady talked continuously of how happy she was, how important her very corporate job was, how fulfilled she was, I sensed that maybe this was simply not the case. In this card, a figure turns from Eight stacked Cups. Behind the Cups a river needs to be crossed, the moon pulls at the emotions. As I discussed the imagery of the card with this lovely lady a strange transition occurred. She told me that she had indeed reached an impasse & realised that the job that absorbed most of her life had recently, & quite rapidly, lost all meaning. She wanted to follow her heart & carve out a more fulfilling career using her artistic creativity. She had discussed this with her partner & he was completely in agreement, full of encouragement & even said that he couldn't wait to get the person he loved back, not the corporate robot who had recently invaded her body !.

The purpose of this post is this, in an ideal world, in order to feel fulfilled & to be successful. An individual needs to marry their drive, their passion, to every aspect of their existence. Sometimes they just need a little push to realise what it is that will finally make them happy.

Are you living your life, have you discovered what it is that makes you feel alive, excited ?.
When we discover what it is that drives us, we should do everything we can to make that our focus.

I wish you only success,

Paul x

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