Finding love in 2012

Posted on January 21, 2012 by paulomara

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Last night I had the joy of watching a friend of mine falling in love. A lot of people ask me “Why can’t I find the right person / when will I meet my soulmate”, it was no different with this lady. As I watched her flirting like a teenager, I felt secretly pleased, the last time I gave her a reading The Lovers indeed featured, however the primary message was that until she really began to love herself for the fabulous woman she is, and stopped looking for the perfect person she had created in her mind, she would still be searching for love.

Finding love in 2012, is this your year ?

Valentines Day is approaching, looking for love in 2012, is it possible, Is this your year?

If you’re like most people the New Year brings a time when we try and revaluate ourselves our desires & our goals. We look at our weight, our jobs, our finances and many times our relationships, or lack of one !. We usually sit down and make a plan to change what we don’t like and build on what we do. For many single people finding someone to share their life with or spend time with is at the top of their New Year resolutions. Life is a journey that is better travelled when you can share your successes and your failures with someone you love. Is this the year you’ll find love? How important is finding a partner to you? 2012 could very well be the year you find love if you plan correctly. Here are some suggestions to increase your odds of success.

Take the initiative

Most of us have many responsibilities we must allocate time for or they don’t get done. Work must be taken care of. Groceries must be purchased. Dishes and laundry must be washed. The list goes on and on. All our responsibilities we make time for. We set aside time and put energy into them so they are sure to be completed. The same goes for finding a companion. You must make time to send out vibes that you are looking for love. You must make time to socialise and interact with real people. Sitting on the couch and waiting for Mr. or Ms. Right to stumble through your front door is not going to find you a life companion. If you’re serious about finding someone special. Get off the couch, off Facebook and go to singles events. Go to every party you’re invited to, attend meet-ups, happy hours and functions where real people interact. If you have an interest join a club where you can meet like minded people. Most of all though, accept that you are a unique soul, a wonderful individual & you deserve to be loved !.

Take Some Chances, Change your Mindset

So you’ve decided to get serious about attracting someone special. You’ve taken initiative, you’ve dedicated time with real people and now you need to take a few risks. I’m not talking about being foolish and making a date, with a stranger, for the first time in a dark alley. Taking risks doesn’t mean jeopardising your values or safety. What I’m talking about is visualising yourself in an exciting new relationship. If you have a fixed idea and know exactly how your ideal mate looks or how he / she will behave, I’m afraid you are probably set to be disappointed. Take a little risk, ask the universe to deliver a new partner and you might be pleasantly surprised. Perhaps date someone a little older, maybe take a chance with someone a bit younger than your ideal. Dating should be a fun time and a time for trying new things. Break the mould and see that maybe what you’ve been searching for isn’t really what you want after all.

Put Yourself in a Position for Success

If you’re sitting in front of a television or computer waiting for your dream guy / girl to walk through the door, you’ve pretty much set yourself up for failure and another year of wondering when love will arrive.

Understand people that are successful at dating are generally successful are not luckier, prettier or smarter than you. They just put themselves in better circumstances, increasing their odds favourably, to find and court the type of person that could be that someone special. 2012 could very well be the year you find love if you take the initiative, dedicate your wish to the universe, take a few chances and put yourself in a position for success.

If you are looking for love, I seriously hope Cupid comes looking for you very soon. I am off for lunch with my partner of 10 years, we are still incredibly happy & yes, they are nothing like my imagined ‘type’ …

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Tarot Affirmations in The Major Arcana

Posted on January 20, 2012 by paulomara

Tarot Card Meanings

The Tarot Major Arcana, each card has a myriad meanings & symbols that unlock more mysteries contained in the Major keys. Often when a questioner selects a Major key as a significator I like to express the feelings that each card gives rise to for me. Almost always these inbuilt affirmations have a strange relevance to the person sat in front of me & where they are on their current path. Here is a list of correspondences, I hope you enjoy them :
0 The Fool – restore default setting, Slow down. You are not responsible for doing it all yourself, right now
1 Magician – What skill do you have that you would like to get paid for, Quit planning how you’re going to use what you know, learn, or possess. Your gifts just are; be grateful and their purpose will be clear.
2 High Priestess – have you really listened to your internal voice, intuition ? Listen to the wind blow. It carries a message of yesterday and tomorrow-and now. NOW counts
3 Empress – Take nothing for granted: re-engage with nature. Marvel at the wonders of the seasons.
4 Emperor - Set your own pace. When someone is pushing you, it’s OK to tell them they’re pushing. You are just as good as anyone who has ever lived.
5 Hierophant – What ritual do you need to establish, Create a place in your home, at your work, in your heart where you can go for quiet and recollection. You deserve it.
6 Lovers – All you need is love though you must truly love yourself before your soulmate will appear.
7 Chariot – What do you need to fight What battle can you not win ? Slow down. You are not responsible for doing it all yourself, right now
8 Strength – You need to draw on your inner reserves, Taste your food. Nature provides it to delight as well as to nourish.
9 Hermit – What have you internalised, Take time just to think. Action is good and necessary, though only useful if tempered by considered thought.
10 The Wheel of Fortune – Accept unconditionally now that the wheel turns in your favour. Really reconnect with life. Take time to truly listen to those you value.
11 Justice – Major choices will you be brave enough – Significant life changes can now have magical impact.
12 Hanged Man – You are suspended, Allow yourself time to be lazy and unproductive. Rest isn’t luxury; it’s a necessity.
13 Death – Man dies many times in his life. What would you do if this was the last week of your existence on this plane? . Remember a happy, peaceful time in your past. Rest there, truly savour each moment.
14 Temperance – Talk slower. Talk less. Don’t talk. Communication isn’t measured by words. Think deeper, look longer, nothing is as it seems.
15 The Devil – Beware Inner vices. Every thought has consequences. Thoughts become things. Use your thoughts to create your new reality.
16 The Tower – The facade crumbles, Your world will not collapse Give yourself permission to be late sometimes. Life is for living, not scheduling.
17 The Star – Rest on your laurels. Regroup to be ready to accept the new bright prospects that are set to appear.
18 The Moon – Dreams, Notice the sun and the moon as they rise and set. They are remarkable for their steady pattern of movement, not their speed
19 The Sun – Reconnect to your inner child. Make time for play – the things you like to do. Whatever your age, your inner child needs recreation.
20 Judgement – Don’t judge your words. When you talk with someone, don’t think about what you’ll say next. Thoughts will spring up naturally if you let them.
21 The World – Envision love engulfing everyone on the planet. Listen for the next the song of a bird; imagine that song carrying a message of joy all around the world

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Imbolc Reconnecting to the Universe

Posted on January 15, 2012 by paulomara

The Fool - Potential

I woke this morning after an uneasy sleep feeling very slightly anxious. I turned my daily affirmation card & saw myself & dog Max on my familiar Fool card. The Fool generally indicates new beginnings, potential with an underlying message of ignoring the myriad distractions, reconnecting to your true purpose. I went for a walk on this beautiful crisp morning & made a conscious decision to reconnect to the earth, as much as is possible in the hustle & bustle of Shepherd’s Bush. After speaking to some friends I realised that we are approaching the half way point between Winter & Spring, a time when the earth begins to warm & come back to life. I realised that I ALWAYS feel like this at this time of year & remember talking about it to my Irish family who explained that this period has been celebrated in Irish folklore since the middle ages. The NeoPagan faith also recognises this time of year by celebrating Imbolc which occurs at the beginning of February.

Imbolc, (pronounced “IM-bulk”), is also referred to by the Druids as Oimealg (“IM-mol’g), the festival of lactating sheep. Oimealg was created from the Gaelic word “oimelc” which translates to “ewe’s milk”. The period when pregnant ewes would start to lactate understanding new life is forming. Imbolc is among the four historic Celtic Holy Days. It is considered one of the Sabbats or Holy Days of religious witchcraft. Imbolc is also considered as I mentioned previously in the 8 Holy Days of Neo-Paganism.

Imbolc is among the list of cornerstones on the Celtic calendar. It is considered among the four “cross-quarters” traditionally commemorated as Sabbats in pagan cultures. Imbolc is the only traditional Celtic celebration explicitly identified with a female deity. It stands out as the day the Celtic Warrior Cailleach collects her fire wood for the remainder of the winter months. Imbolc is among the list of four key celebrations of the Celtic calendar, observed either at the beginning of February or around the earliest indications of spring. Imbolc signifies the midway point of the darker portion of the year. It is furthermore the first fertility holiday on the Wiccan liturgical calendar.

Imbolc signifies a period from the hearth fire as well as thawing and stirring of earth’s waters melting from the Sun. It also honors Brigit the three-fold goddess associated with fire, poetry and healing. Wiccans observe an alternative of Imbolc as one of four “fire festivals” which comprises half of the eight holidays on the Wheel of the Year. With the Christian calendar, this unique event was altered and renamed Candlemas. Christians light candles to reflect upon the purification of the Virgin Mary. Imbolc and Brigid are additionally believed to have a link with the Roman tales surrounding the celebration of Lupercalia as well as the Egyptian Feast of the Nut, they are both held on February 2. In the United States and Canada most likely you know Imbolc as Groundhog’s Day (February 2) when a groundhog emerges from his burrow to forecast whether winter will be for 6 more weeks or whether spring is just around the corner. Even though the practices and names for this celebration are different, the underlying messages are identical; the desire and anticipation of spring.

Imbolc is also recognized as Brigid’s (pronounced BREED) Day. Brigid is the triple Goddess in her new role as maiden departing the crone associated with winter behind. It is also a period when growers as well as fishermen rely on continuous improvement in the weather conditions. Imbolc marks the halfway period between the Winter solstice and the Vernal Equinox; a time when hope starts to stir accompanied by a yearning for the return of spring. It is commonly a celebration of newness; the promise of fertility, new life and fresh hope. In many instances it’s marked by the lighting of candles. Food dishes offered at Imbolc festivals are, not surprisingly, milk along with other dairy products. Other foods frequently served at Imbolc gatherings are tender baby vegetables and sprouts.

Imbolc is sometimes regarded as a Sabbat of fertility, inspiration, healing and purification. It may also be a white time, burning with inspiration and commitment or cooling with healing and purification. Purification clears the way for fresh, new life when spring begins Imbolc is an excellent time for self-purification. It may also be regarded as a time of revitalization and fresh starts. As a result Imbolc is a great occasion to release creative juices and permit them to flow through poetry, sculpture, painting or possibly anything signifying a facet of nature that may be most sacred to you. It is a wonderful chance to think about your objectives and resources; it’s an opportunity to clarify one’s aim and devote one’s self to the upcoming year. Imbolc is best reserved for commemorating and evaluating your connection with the Universe and Mother Earth.

Take a moment this Spring to really connect & consider how you want your year to unfold.

As always, I hope you manifest everything you desire

The Fool, The Empress

Tarot 2012, Beyond the comfort zone

Posted on January 11, 2012 by admin

Tarot spread for 2012

A simple three card Tarot reading inspired my blog post today. In a nutshell the cards that came up for the questioner were: The Hanged Man, The Four of Cups & The Tower. I intend to post some simple insights in to readings & then expand on the underlying dynamics behind the reading. Very briefly this reading went along these lines : “The Hanged Man you feel that you are suspended,This card tells you that you will need to release yourself and allow yourself to see things from a different perspective. The Four of Cups indicates that you are dis-satisfied with your lot. Though things are ticking over you are not excited or motivated about the future, The truth, you know already, is that you must seek out a new path that will return fulfilment to your life. The Tower crumbles, the facade is destroyed what lies behind, how are you going to step out of the security you have created to re-energise your life ? ” …

Though this is a very brief synopsis the lady confirmed that she was indeed bored by her life, her relationship & her job & knew deep inside that she had to shake things up to reveal where she needed to make changes to take control of her life in 2012.

This is a pattern that I have been seeing in many readings that I have given at the beginning of this new year.

Is it time for you to re-assess your direction ?

Now is the time to push your limitations, cross some boundaries, and make small changes each day to reach new goals and to expand your life beyond your expectations.

2012 marks a brand new year and a time most of us will make New Year resolutions. If you’re like most of us, you have a few habits you’d like to change and the beginning of the year sounds as good as any time to start. Roughly 50% of us will make at least one New Year resolution but very few of us will succeed.

Make sure you push your boundaries little by little and take things one day at a time. I encourage you to push your limits and try something new. Go beyond the barriers you’ve set for yourself. Do some research and learn some truths. Become a skeptic of what peers have defined as reality. Ignore how they define you or describe who you are. The fear of the unknown is what keeps us from extending our experience. If you always go for what is comfortable, life can become small & prevent you from truly experiencing everything our world has to offer.

A few years ago I was given the chance to travel that included visits to countries that my friends thought I was mad to even consider. There preconditioning & their beliefs meant that they would not remotely consider such a journey. After careful consideration & consultations with my deck I decided I would indeed go on the adventure that was offered. The outcome was that I visited places, met fabulous people & experienced cultures that had I listened to my friends fears, would never have materialised for me.

If you always travel the same path, you will always reach the same destination is a phrase that I love & has become a sort of mantra for me. My first video of 2012 shows one of the tandem parachute drops that I have made. Again friends of mine thought I was mad, but this life experience will live with me forever and I am glad I faced my fears.

I am not a daredevil & there are things that I could not imagine doing, for example a friend of mine is a singer & I am in awe whenever I see him perform in front of thousands of people. However, more & more I think that incrementally ‘facing your fears’ & expanding your boundaries, can manifest a new life that can be fantastically rewarding.

When you worry, your brain is in the state of “fight or flight”, you are incapable of shaping what you wish for and unable to stay open to inventive ideas. Fight or flight is the usual way people respond to stress or uncertainty. The issue is while flight or fight is acceptable when confronted with actual physical danger, this identical behaviour, in the experience of emotional fear, may cause significant issues with personal growth. Instantly, the body naturally responds to danger using its flight or fight response. The body releases adrenalin to help you do whatever you need to do to protect yourself. Controlling our fight or flight instinct is essential to keep stress in check and realise personal growth. Often times this requires stepping out of our comfort zone.

Living in your comfort zone may feel safe, but it won’t help you reach your personal goals. You instinctively seek a comfort zone in life where nothing or little changes. Stepping out of your comfort zone can strip you of self-imposed limitations. The reason so many of us like to stay within our comfort zone is because we enjoy feeling content and automatic behaviours are the hardest to break. Automatic behaviours represent the limitations that can keep you from reaching your true potential. The disadvantage of staying in your comfort zone is that you will never grow within it. Even if you don’t particularly like your comfort zone, like an old worn-out baby blanket, it offers you security.

You need to understand how important it is to venture out of your boundaries. Successful people learn to enlarge their comfort zone by stages. Most anything you do in your life is scored against your personal boundaries, and you can learn behaviours with time that will prevent you ever moving beyond the self imposed barriers you create. The comfort zone is also correctly known as the “Self Limiting Self Concept”. Imagine your comfort zone is your rival. It is the enemy of all human potential. If you really want to reach your New Year’s resolutions and goals, you only need to take small steps. These small steps can reduce the anxiety and stress of trying something new. Pushing yourself just a little bit each day will expand your life beyond your dreams. Venture out of your comfort zone in 2012 and see how much more life has to offer you!

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As always much Love & I wish you only success !

Paul

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2012

Posted on January 9, 2012 by admin

2012

Ok so 2012 is here. We have had the New Year’s celebrations, the resolutions, what does it really mean for everybody ?. I personally believe that 2012 is a transformational year for every individual, humanity as a collective consciousness & especially for our planet. For me 2012 will see me stepping more into what I believe is my authentic life, not the life that society, the media, or authorities would lead me to believe is my life. I have put together a short video of how I feel personally at the beginning of 2012 on where life has brought me up to this fabulous year.

2012 video Change yourself, change your future

I feel that everyone is questioning their place on the planet, their true purpose. I have been thrilled in the first view days of this New Year to see friends who have been feeling lost, or trapped, suddenly make life changing decisions. Career changes, relationship choices, even just upping sticks & setting off to see the world. It is so gratifying to see people genuinely excited, taking risks & grabbing life by the horns & just going for it. To really experience life, & the reason you are here, sometimes you need to just take the chance, step outside of the comfort zone.

2012 the theories

You would be hard pressed to find somebody who isnʼt at least partially familiar with the concept of 2012. There are many theories concerning the year 2012, most of which relate in some way to the mayan calendar and the predictions that were made by the Mayans. Some believe that the Mayans were predicting the end of life on Earth in December 2012 while other simply believe that it will be a time of change and transition. Whatever you believe it is hard to ignore the 2012 phenomenon. As we head into 2012 letʼs take a look at the astrology and predictions that have brought about such beliefs.
There is a great deal of disagreement amongst scholars who study the subject of 2012. Some say that the account of the Mayan calendar coming to an end on December 21st 2012 is completely false whilst others believe that it simply means it will be a time of great change and growth for human civilisation. A popular belief surrounding 2012 involves Planet X or Nibiru. The belief is that the planet will come into close orbit with the Earth and collide with it in 2012. However belief has mostly lost credibility by this point as anything so close to the Earthʼs orbit would be visible by now.
The reason these theories exist is because one of the Mayan calendars, known as the Long Count Calendar comes to an end between 21st-23rd December 2012. The mayan calendar has proven to be extremely accurate in predicting astrological events over the years so some that if the calendar stops in 2012 then that means the end of time. However the calendar does not stop on this date, it merely resets to zero. The dates also coincide with a winter solstice where the sun aligns with the centre of the milky way – the first time for 26,000 years. Some say this will cause catastrophic changes to the Earth although there is no solid scientific evidence to back this up.
2012 has had a lot of influence over popular culture with thousands of books and websites being produced. There have also been major Hollywood movies made on the subject – the most obvious being the 2009 film ʻ2012ʼ. Many people treat the subject very lightly and see it as mere speculation or misinformation however there are people who are very concerned about the subject and worry about what will really happen in 2012. I think there will be major shifts that will lead us to truly follow our authentic destiny, I also believe that materialism & working for the sake of working will be overshadowed by everyone feeling driven to find an occupation that really fulfills them. Wherever 2012 leads you, I truly hope you manifest everything you desire.

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Winter Solstice 2011

Posted on December 22, 2011 by Paul OMara

Winter Solstice – Moving Ahead to 2012
The day of the winter solstice is the shortest day of the year. It marks the beginning of winter, and happens on either December 21st or 22nd, depending on where you live. After this winter solstice we are moving towards 2012, which is predicted to be a massive transition for humanity & our planet. Can you feel the change in the air ? I certainly can !.
Winter solstice 2012, marks the end of one cycle of the Long Count Calendar used by the Mayans, Aztecs, Toltecs and Olmecs. A cycle lasts 5125. 26 years. The winter solstice of 2012 coincides with the turning over of the Long Count Calendar, and on that morning, the sun will seem to rise towards the patch of sky known as the galactic center. This is also the location of the black hole at the center of the Milky Way galaxy.
While this is not the first time that this has or will occur, but the difference in 2012 will be that the sun will seemingly touch a part of the great rift which winds its way along the galactic equator. This is important in Mayan cosomology as this area of the sky is linked to spiritual rebirth mythology. This is the first time in some 26,000 years that the sun will appear to touch the great rift, and some believe that this will lead to significant adjustment and change.
Mayan astrologers predicted this as an end to civilization as we know it. Mayans did correctly predict the end of their own civilization, although it would seem as though they directed their own fate, based on their beliefs.
On December 21, winter solstice 2012, the Earth and the galactic center (the Milky Way) will align. As this only occurs once every 26,000 years, this in itself is a dramatic event. Predictions of what will occur on the winter solstice of 2012 range from the devastation of the Earth, to a wondrous reconnection to our higher selves. More likely we may see ourselves being more open to our dreams, finding inspiration and light from within.
The winter solstice of 2012 will indeed bring change as it does each year. After the shortest day of the year the earth begins its climb towards spring and renewal. The days begin to get longer and the earth begins to warm itself in the Western Hemisphere, and human civilization begins to prepare itself for the incredible, yet mysterious year ahead.

I know you had a Fantastic Solstice & get ready for an incredible 2012 !

Merry Christmas !

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2012 Year of the Water Dragon – Chinese Astrology

Posted on December 18, 2011 by Paul OMara

2012 is set to shake things up on several fronts. Firstly the 5th Chinese Zodiac Animal, the incredible Dragon storms in to dare us to follow our dreams, take up the challenge & finally follow our passion. Fiery by nature the message of the water Dragon is to temper the flames with relaxation, really go for your dreams, but be careful to work on your work life balance.

2011 saw radical environmental change, 2012 will see even more changes in economies, environment, humanities, etc. Priorities will be changing for everybody & there will be a massive shift in our world, people will be connecting more than ever before, not on a superficial level, in a way that will genuinely lead to a burst in human development. Things that seemed important, such as material gain purely for profit will be replaced by activities that will really nourish & inspire people to do great things & strive to finally reach their full potential.

Dragon influence

Able to see all aspects of a challenge, anyone influenced by the Dragon can expect choices, they crave relationships, though absolutely revel in their independence. Chinese relationship compatibility has been used for 1,000s of years to understand how the elements & animals interact. You can find out your sign & who best you interact with on my Chinese Astrology Compatibility page . While my chinese Astrology has been overshadowed by my western Astrology & Daily Horoscopes, the fascinating power & romance of Chinese astrology continues to fascinate me.

Chinese astrology and Chinese zodiacs date back over 2,000 years. Most people are not
familiar with doctrines of Chinese astrology. It has a close relation to Chinese philosophy
and the concepts of yin and yang. Chinese astrology first appeared during the Zhou
Dynasty – around 1046BC. It was further expanded upon during the Han period where the
usual elements associated with Chinese philosophy appeared – the theory of five
elements, Confucian morality, yin and yang & Heaven and Earth. The main belief with
Chinese astrology is that a personʼs destiny is determined by the position of the planetʼs at
birth

There are 12 zodiac signs in Chinese astrology. All named after animals. 2012 is the year
of the dragon. In Chinese culture The Dragon is regarded as a divine beast – a symbol of
good fortune and power. This is quite opposed to the western view of the dragon as a
scary creature. The year of the dragon occurs every twelfth year. The characteristics that
people associate with someone who is born in the year of the dragon include innovation,
flexibility, bravery, self-assurance, enterprise, scrutiny. The characteristics of the dragon
sign are affected by one of the five Chinese elements of Wood, Fire, Metal Water and
Earth. In 2012 we see the year of the Water Dragon.

The Water Dragon is more perceptive than than the dragon of the other four elements.
They are able to step back and evaluate situations and make carefully considered
decisions. They do not desire the limelight and are able to see eye-to-eye with people.
They are better equipped to deal with situations that require patience with a calmness not
associated with the other Dragons.

Have a Fantastic Christmas & get ready for an incredible 2012 !

Merry Christmas !

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Learning to Love Yourself

Posted on November 13, 2011 by Paul OMara

I get many mails from people searching for love & trying to re-ignite a relationship that has gone off the boil. The question is usually “How do I get them to love me ?”. I always answer before you can be loved, or truly love another, you must learn to love yourself. Not in a narcissistic way, but to truly be comfortable in your own skin.
Learning to love yourself
People tend to spend so much of their time waiting to be loved; they hope love will find them, so they searching for that special love and end up feeling empty and lost if they don’t have it. Contrary to popular opinion, life doesn’t usually work like that. Loving yourself is mainly having self-respect which is the only sure way to create love in your own life that you will eventually share with others. When people begin to expect love from an external source, and that external source-someone or something- does not fill their void and fantasies, it will only lead to the person feeling worse than before. For one to be able to be loved, they must first love and respect themselves as much as they do others.
Learning to love yourself is not an easy task, but the hardships are well worth the risk. It is good to express yourself in any way you can; if you have an opinion, let it be heard, if you have something on your mind, put it put there. Expressing yourself will go a long way in helping you to value yourself and your opinions, instead of allowing other people to influence you. Besides learning to properly express yourself, you should also learn to stop punishing yourself for past mistakes. People often fall into the trap of punishing themselves for events that transpired in the past; this behavioral mind set is very detrimental to learning to truly love one’s self. Instead of punishing yourself for a past mistake, learn to look at your past experiences as a lesson learned. Forgiving yourself is perhaps one of the biggest steps in learning to love yourself. Patience and persistence also go a long way in helping you achieve your goals of self-respect. You should start to work towards what you want to achieve by doing something positive, learning to have a more positive outlook or being enthusiastic about your situation. You should adopt the attitude of defining yourself through the things you have accomplished instead of ruminating on the things you do not have yet. Learning to love yourself as you are now because it is just as important as loving yourself when you feel you are perfect.

Lucille Ball once said you must “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world”. You must learn to be comfortable with who you really are; express yourself, let your voice be heard, play, sing, do whatever you wish. You shouldn’t be afraid of what others think of you, they too, most likely feel the same way you do and want to express themselves just as much as you, but are afraid to do so. Learning to love yourself is the only way you can truly move forward in life.

I truly hope you manifest everything you desire.

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Love & Relationships, Tarot & Soulmates

Posted on November 4, 2011 by Paul OMara

After my previous post about the Tetragrammaton the sacred word which represents the divine power as we understand it, the next logical step is to focus on the very thing that underpins everything we do, The power of love. Many times during a reading a combination of cards such as those shown above, various cups cards, The Empress & of course The Lovers will leave me in no doubt that the person in front of me is searching for love.

Searching For True Love, The Perfect Soul Mate.

Just about everyone on this planet wants to be in love and enjoy the companionship that comes with it. While the vast majority of us will experience the pleasures that love can bring, it is important to understand that love means many different things to many different people. To some, the thought of experiencing love is nothing more than enjoying the rewards of some fleeting temptation. Or appreciating some agreeable companionship, that puts a little warmth into the cold dark nights of winter. Most of us however, are looking for the signs of true love. My most popular free Tarot readings are my Relationship Tarot, & my animated version, my ten card talking Relationship Tarot reading. We all eventually seek much more than satisfying temporary desires. How to find true love is probably the question I am asked the most. The pursuit of true love is what we should aspire to. The discovery of a true soul mate is uppermost in our mind. We are looking for the perfect someone, who can captivate us heart and soul, usually I find this very person is outside of our usual 'type' & can often appear to competely surprise us.

Some though can be left wondering what true love really is. Not everyone will come across it. At least not soon enough before their desire for companionship overshadows the search for soulful love. They will settle for less and fall into a relationship. Sure, romance may blossom and go on to evolve into a lasting bond that will grow in strength, as each partner slowly develops more and more reliance upon the other. In many ways, it can be at this very point that many think they have actually achieved what they first desired. They think they have found their true love, their soulmate, and just did not realize the fact at the start of the relationship. Many will go on to enjoy a full and satisfying partnership. The question will always remain, have they really found their true love? .

There are quite a few people who end up discovering their true love, while they are already in a comfortable relationship. Often left with the agonizing decision on whether or not to risk everything they already have and much of what they have achieved in life, for the chance of going after what could be true love, this is often a risk too difficult for many to take, leading to lifelong regrets. Those are the ones left wondering what would have been. Although, they at least have the satisfaction of feeling they have the next best thing. Of course, others already in a relationship, will jump in head first at the very thought of finally having discovered their true soul mate. While a few of those people just may have got it right, the vast majority soon realize the mistake they have made.

Many will say all you need is love, I wholeheartedly agree, more & more I realise that love is the force that creates everything has the potential to release our true potential.

I truly hope you manifest everything you desire.

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Tarot – The World – Relationships of The Major Arcana cards

Posted on November 2, 2011 by Paul OMara

My mother is currently fighting another health scare & is
constantly on my mind. I have decided to give her the ultimate position
in my deck & as my site gives thousands of free readings, her image
will be seen many times a day all around our beatiful planet. The World
represents The Great Awakening, it's mantra is You Mean The World To Me
.. Let Your light illuminate the World …

The World – The Great One of the Night of Time.

Every time The World appears in a reading incredible opportunities are
presented. You will certainly have worked hard to reach this pinnacle
of The Major Arcana. Move forward with certainty, you are outside of
the realms of normality, at the top of your game.

I am in the process of documenting all of my cards & the meaning of
Tarot, If you are interested in learning Tarot, this could be a good
place to start !.

Tarot The Major Arcana or The Greatest Secrets. (You can select the
name of each card to visit the corresponding page on my site ).

The Major arcana consists of 22 cards numbered from 0 to 21. They go
from complete ignorance to complete knowledge. The Fool, numbered 0 or
unnumbered, represents complete ignorance and oblivion to the world
around it. It is a card of innocence. Whereas The World, numbered 21,
represents complete understanding. Each card represents only one step
on the journey to understanding, in Tarot this is referred to as The
Fool's Journey.
Tarot 0 The Fool-
The fool is the fearless traveler. He leaps before he looks and speak
before he thinks. Positively associated with innocence, new beginnings,
joy, fearlessness, and spontaneity. Negatively associated with
thoughtlessness, immaturity, impulsiveness, lack of responsibility and
lawlessness.
Tarot 1 The Magician-
The Magician is a person of new opportunities and ambition. He has
incredible willpower, but is often overcome by his emotions. Positively
associated with confidence, individuality, willpower, new beginnings,
and inner potential. Negatively associated with trickery, deception,
lack of compassion, indecision, and abuse of power.
Tarot 2 The High Priestess-
The High Priestess is the guardian of hidden secrets. She keeps the
divine knowledge secretly tucked away for the right time to reveal.
Positively associated with intuitiveness, understanding, wisdom,
mystery, psychic ability, and the divine feminine. Negatively
associated with lack of a strong maternal influence, emotional
insecurity, secretiveness, and hidden obstacles or opponents.
Tarot 3 The Empress-
The Empress is a symbol of love, fertility and motherhood. She
represents compassion and devotion. Positively associated with
fertility, birth, motherhood, harmony, nature, prosperity, joy, love,
and artistic ambition. Negatively associated with domestic upheaval,
emotional blackmail, over-protectiveness, and suppressed logical
expression.
Tarot 4 The Emperor-
The Emperor is a sign of achievement and honour. He represents
paternity and strong leadership. Positively associated with
achievement, authority, protection, support, trustworthiness,
discipline,provider, consolidation, reason, and willpower. Negatively
associated with weakness, immaturity, failed ambition, status driven,
tyrannical, and an overbearing nature.
Tarot 5 The Hierophant-
The Hierophant is a symbol of moral law and convictions. He is also a
welcomed advisor and spiritual guide. Positively associated with
advice, wise counsel, spiritual consolation, knowledge, identification,
faith, conformity, and traditions. Negatively associated with
misinformation, lack of faith, deviousness, bad advice, confusion, and
disorderly conduct.
Tarot 6 The Lovers-
The Lovers represent a new breath of life. They symbolise love,
devotion and spiritual friendship. Positively associated with desire,
new lover, relationships, physical attraction, love, sex, and
commitment. Negatively associated with lust, moral lapse, temptation,
indecision, separation, failed love affairs, and emotional loss of
control.
Tarot 7 The Chariot-
The Chariot symbolises conflict and victory. It also represents unknown
forces pulling you forward quickly. Positively associated with triumph,
movement, change, self-belief, assertiveness, and good news. Negatively
associated with rage, tyranny, overinflated ego, selfishness,
arrogance, delays, and frustration.
Tarot 8 Justice-
This card directly means justice, fairness, and balance. It also has
sway over partnerships and legal matters. Positively associated with
justice, truth, integrity, balance, arbitration, responsibility, and
fairness. Negatively associated with prejudice, injustice, bad
judgement, bias, and bad advice.
Tarot 9 The Hermit-
The Hermit is a solitary person, one who looks for answers within and
away from others. he represents a time for solitude and peace.
Positively associated with introspection, solitude, guidance, advice,
and patience. Negatively associated with obstinacy, suspiciousness,
fear, impatience, folly, and arrogance.
Tarot 10 The Wheel of Fortune-
The Wheel of Fortune is a sign of fates spinning round and round
bringing in a new era. It represents the randomness of life and what
comes at you. Positively associated with destiny, movement, vision,
good luck, new cycle, and synchronicity. Negatively associated with
obstacles, temporary bad luck, and unpleasant surprises.
Tarot 11 Strength-
The Strength cards shows the inner resolves you have. It represents the
emotional, physical and spiritual strength associated with the
situation. Positively associated with strength, willpower, compassion,
patience, courage, triumph, and fortitude. Negatively associated with
over compensation, fear, inertia, defeat, loss of opportunity, and
entropy.
Tarot 12 The Hanged Man-
The Hanged Man symbolises self-sacrifice and the unaware mind. He is
representative of the blind sacrifice that is needed in the situation.
Positively associate with transition, flexibility, rebirth,
deliverance, and release. Negatively associated with materialism,
inflated ego, lack of willpower, easily influenced, and martyrdom.
Tarot 13 Death-
The Death card symbolises anything but that. It is a card of release
and starting over. It represents the absolute, both the end and the
beginning. Positively associate with endings, transformation,
clearance, and sweeping change. Negatively associated with stagnation,
loss of opportunity, loss of friendship, and fear of change.
Tarot 14 Temperance-
The Temperance card is a card of self-control and emotional mastery. It
represents the ability to handle overwhelming circumstances and
emotions. Positively associated with harmony, health, moderation,
compromise, peace, and self-control. Negatively associated with
impatience, lack of foresight, conflict, quarrels, and domestic strife.
Tarot 15 The Devil-
The Devil is the embodiment of primal instincts. Heated emotions runs
strong with him, passions devour the mind and self-control is lost.
Positively associated with permanence and commitment. Negatively
associated with entrapment, lust, greed, ignorance, anger, tyranny, and
obsession.
Tarot 16 The Tower-
The Tower shows the crumbling of stability and the breaking down of all
things. It represent change, upheaval and unwanted change. Positively
associated with re-evaluation, necessary change, and a blessing in
disguise. Negatively associated with sudden change, downfall,
disruption, and disaster.
Tarot 17 The Star-
The Star is a beacon shining through the darkness, a guiding light. It
represents renewal of faith, hope and youth. Positively associated with
hope, generosity, serenity, wishes coming true, good health, and
spiritual awareness. Negatively associated with self-doubt, lack of
trust,
cynicism, and pessimism.
Tarot 18 The Moon-
The Moon is a card of hidden and buried emotions. It casts and eerie
light over everything. It represents hard travels and a rough inner
journey. Positively associated with imagination, unexpected
possibilities, and illumination. Negatively associated with fear,
confusion, highly charged emotions, bewilderment, lies, and deceit.
Tarot 19 The Sun-
The Sun shines down on everything, giving warmth, life and joy. The Sun
is the light at the end of the tunnel, the source of all that is wished
for. Positively associated with happiness, greatness, enlightenment,
vitality, good health, love, and fulfilment. Negatively associated with
misjudgement, delays, potential failure, and inflated ego.
Tarot 20 Judgement-
Judgement heralds a time of reward. It is the card of wisdom and
acceptance. It represents new phases in life and new relationships with
the self. Positively associated with rebirth, rejoicing, absolution,
new potential, and rewards for past efforts. Negatively associated with
guilt, loss, self-reproach, delays, fear, and obstinacy.
Tarot 21 The World-
The World is the end & the beginning. The arrival of all the
desires you hoped for. It is the beginning and the end, the dream, the
hope and wish itself. Positively associated with success, completion,
satisfaction, joy, wholeness, and success. Negatively associate with
stagnation, lack of will, impatience, and delays.

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